Do You Have an Anxious Attachment Style in Relationships? attachment styles healing relationship advice Sep 20, 2020

"My longterm mission is to help as many people as possible get healthy themselves, find healthy partners, and have healthy children." -Melissa Leger

"How you formed an attachment to your...

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My friend is dating a jerk, how can I help her? [Podcast EP 49] break up dating advice dating expert dating jerks get over him gumball love healing red flags relationship advice Oct 14, 2019

Sometimes we'd do more to help our friends than we do to help ourselves. We have the best intentions and think we're helping her get over this jerk guy she's dating, but sometimes we're actually...

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Why do we always attract the wrong guy? [Podcast EP 48] dating advice gumball love healing red flags relationship advice self care self love singles Oct 07, 2019

Why do we date the wrong guy over and over again? I've covered a lot in the past about why the bad guys (the Gumball Guys) act the way they do, but it's time to talk about YOU. There's two people...

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Are You Forcing Yourself to Be Someone You're Not? [Podcast EP 47] back to you blog dating advice finding yourself gumball love healing podcast relationship advice self love singles Sep 30, 2019

Did you know that before you have a one on one coaching session with me, I don't really know exactly what I'm going to say to you?

It's not because I'm not a good relationship...

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Why you haven't found real love yet [Podcast episode 45] blog dating advice get back to you get over your ex gumball love healing podcast singles Sep 16, 2019

Everyone on this earth is capable of finding real, lasting love, and everyone deserves it. But not everyone knows, REALLY knows and feels in their heart that they deserve it. 

This episode is...

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How to set boundaries in relationships [Podcast EP 44] blog boundaries dating advice dating podcast healing podcast relationship advice self love Sep 08, 2019

Healthy boundaries are becoming more and more of a popular topic these days. If you didn't grow up in a family with healthy boundaries (and many of us didn't) you wouldn't even know what...

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How to respond to "Let's take things slow" [Podcast Episode 42] blog dating advice healing podcast self love Aug 26, 2019

We've all heard the advice before to "take it slow" so that we don't get hurt again. When a guy says this to you, or when you're thinking you need to do this with a new guy, it may seem sensible,...

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The Psychological Reason for Ghosting that No One Talks About [Podcast Episode 41] blog dating advice ghosting healing online dating podcast relationship advice singles Aug 19, 2019

The Cosmo magazines of the world will tell you you're being ghosted because you're too clingy, or revealing emotions too soon. Guys will tell you they just forgot or don't like to be on their...

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Are you open to receiving love? [Podcast Episode 40] blog dating advice gumball love healing podcast relationship advice self love singles Aug 12, 2019

You can also download and subscribe to this podcast for free on Apple PodcastsGoogle Podcasts, or Spotify.

Wow, episode number 40!! Thank you all so much who have been listening...

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Who are you really getting ready for? [Podcast Ep 39] blog dating advice get over your ex healing online dating podcast self love singles Aug 05, 2019

You can also download and subscribe to this podcast for free on Apple PodcastsGoogle Podcasts, or Spotify.


One of the girls in the Back to YOU Academy had an amazing revelation...

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Are you Ready to Date Again after a Toxic Relationship? dating advice gumball love healing podcast relationship advice self love singles Jul 29, 2019

Are you ready to date again? You recently got out of a toxic relationship...cheers to you! So how do you know if you're ready to get back into the dating scene or if you should take a break?

We...

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He's putting in no effort...why do I chase him? [Podcast] blog breakups gumball love healing podcast Jul 23, 2019

What is it about him?  He is putting in almost no effort yet he's the one that makes you feel weak in the knees.  

We decode how this guy keeps you reeled in and how you can finally...

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