What Does it Really Mean to be "Ready for Love"? dating advice dating coach gumball love relationship advice relationship coach Jul 01, 2021

How do you know if you are "ready for love"? The depiction of love and romance in Hollywood movies certainly sets the wrong expectations for us around what healthy love, dating and relationships...

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Is It Time to Hire a Dating & Relationship Coach? dating advice dating after 30 gumball love singles advice May 20, 2021

Wondering if it's time to start working with a dating and relationship coach?

It can be scary investing in coaching. You might be embarrassed that your situation is such a mess, or worry that I'll...

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Why You Need to Slow Down for True Love dating advice gumball love happily single singles advice Mar 07, 2021

In this episode, I felt called to discuss this urgency around needing to "fix" yourself so you can find the right guy and enter into a healthy relationship. I want to tell you to slow down,...

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Does He Want Love or a Hook Up? dating advice dating after 30 gumball love happily single singles advice Feb 21, 2021

Many of you have been coming into my DMs or writing in the private Facebook group asking about what are the red flags to know if he's really looking for love or just a hook up?

And I'm going to...

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Are You Caught in the Cycle of Playing Games? attention addiction dating advice gumball guy gumball love Feb 14, 2021

After hearing this content about Gumball Love and attention addiction for a while, many of you come to me in the DMs worried that YOU are actually a Gumball Girl.

Most of the time, you are not....

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Why isn't he texting back? dating advice gumball guy happily single online dating singles advice Jan 10, 2021

We've all been there...you're texting back and forth with a guy, and the responses are pretty quick in the beginning, everything is exciting, you're getting the butterflies....and gradually, the...

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The White Gumball: Prove Yourself to Me attention addiction dating advice gumball guy gumball love Dec 27, 2020

When you're in a new relationship or just starting to go on a few dates with a guy, do you ever feel like you're being evaluated against some checklist on a clipboard?

He says things like, "When...

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The Pink Gumball: It's All About Me dating advice gumball guy gumball love red flags Dec 13, 2020

Welcome back to this series, where we're talking about all the flavors of attention that the wrong guys want. They make us think that they're falling for us, but they're getting high off of...

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The Purple Gumball: Chase Me attention addiction dating advice dating coach gumball guy gumball love self worth Dec 06, 2020

"Work is so crazy right now, but we should meet up soon." -text from a guy, probably sitting on his couch, who wants the Purple Gumball

If you're new to Gumball Love, welcome! Gumball Love is a...

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Soni Pelty Left an Abusive Marriage, Discovered Herself, and Found Real Love dating advice dating single mother divorce leaving marriage self love self worth singles Nov 03, 2020

If you are currently considering leaving your marriage, going through a divorce, or wondering how to get back into dating after divorce, you're gonna want to listen to this episode for some...

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How will I know if he's the right guy? dating advice dating after 30 dating anxiety finding love online dating red flags self worth Oct 18, 2020

In this episode I'll be answering a listener question: How will I know if he's the right guy? She also feared that she may have so much self worth and love that no guy will ever be...

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Is Your Ex Still in Your Head? breakups dating advice get over your ex narcissists singles advice Oct 05, 2020

Are you carrying around the weight of how your ex made you feel not good enough, into new relationships? Or maybe it's even affecting relationships with friends, family, or your work life....

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