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WHAT IS GUMBALL LOVE?
Gumball Love is a transactional relationship. One person puts in a quarter, the other person gives a Gumball.
is the action or prompt which provokes the other person to provide the flavor of response they crave the “Gumball.”
itself is the sugar high of attention. It’s the validation that can soothe, distract, stimulate, create pleasure or reduce pain.
IS HE A GUMBALL GUY?
A Gumball person needs you to be providing some kind of sugar high to keep them interested. When the flavor fades, they get another craving prompting you for another sugar high. Understanding this pattern will empower you to see the cycle, know the root cause and gain clarity for the first time ever.
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