Why you love him. 
Why your heart can't let go. 

You don’t need to change who you are. You just need to understand how you’re wired — so you stop handing your heart to people who can’t hold it.

The Gumball Love Quiz reveals emotional patterns hiding in plain sight — so you can stop fighting yourself, hear your instincts clearly, and find the kind of love that finally meets you where you are.

 

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Why you love him. 

Why your heart can't let go.

Stop looking for what is wrong with you. 

Uncover why he can't meet your depth. 
  

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The Gumball Love Podcast is about finding real relationships and filtering out the Gumball Guys. You will become an expert at seeing the red flags long before you fall in love. This new awareness will bring back the fun in dating, give you confidence again and set you on the course to finding true love while being happily single in the process.

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